• Oops.. I did it again!: New Book live

    Oops.. I did it again!: New Book live

    The author shares their journey of writing and illustrating a children’s book, overcoming self-doubt about artistic skills. The writing process was swift, but fears about illustrating nearly halted progress. By experimenting with basic design, they transformed simple ideas into a heartfelt story about healing. They encourage others to pursue their dreams, regardless of perceived readiness.

  • Love is a constant state of breaking and remaking

    Love is a constant state of breaking and remaking

    “Love is a constant state of breaking and remaking, and relationships, they evolve to survive.”—Liz Ortecho, Roswell, New Mexico, Season 4, Episode 13 That line stopped me mid-scroll. There’s something beautifully raw about the idea that love isn’t static. It doesn’t stay preserved in the form we first found it. It shifts, stretches, and sometimes…

  • What a Pollyanna: embracing realism with a positive mindset in challenging times

    What a Pollyanna: embracing realism with a positive mindset in challenging times

    The term “Pollyanna” has become a bit of a backhanded compliment in today’s culture. Originating from the classic 1960 Disney movie based on Eleanor H. Porter’s novel, Pollyanna tells the story of a young girl whose relentless optimism changes the hearts of everyone around her. Over time, though, “Pollyanna” has taken on a different meaning,…

  • Tell your Story! Burn the bridges!

    Hello all. I will preface this with a TW: domestic violence, child abuse. I wanted to share this publicly, not to cause a stir or solicit empathy. I was embarrassed, but now I realize that I have no reason to be embarrassed. I did nothing wrong. I loved people who harmed me and that is…

  • How I Overcame My Mental Health Struggles

    How I Overcame My Mental Health Struggles

    I have to start by saying this is what worked for me. Everyone has a different story, and a situation or experience might cause your depression or anxiety. Another source can be your hormones or even a genetic predisposition. Please keep these things in mind as you read my story. Try what you think might…

  • The Cure for Imposter Syndrome

    The Cure for Imposter Syndrome

    Imposter syndrome, according to healthline.com, “involves feelings of self-doubt and personal incompetence that persist despite your education, experience, and accomplishments.” I know that I have experienced imposter syndrome on high levels.

  • Gratitude in 2018

    Gratitude in 2018

    2018 has blessed me beyond measure. The big lesson this year was all about gratitude. I learned to be grateful for everything and every experience because it led me to this place and this moment.

  • It’s not that simple

    I have been reading posts that people are writing in regards to suicide. They are all sweet platitudes about how they are here for you and you aren’t alone. I call BS. Here is why. Mental health issues that lead to suicide can not be solved by just getting a hug and talking a walk…

  • Patience in conflict

    I am bitterly passive aggressive. My family never fought so I ignore, punish, shame people when they wrong me. I am getting better at attacking conflict head on, but I have had to undo some petty things before the other person noticed. I’m starting to understand what good timing looks like. I’m starting to choose…

  • Gratitude and Apologies

    As I am working on being healthy and working out who I want to be, I’ve decided it is worthwhile to thank people for what they have done for me. People are often perplexed when your behavior towards them changes. You were once consistent and focused and then suddenly you weren’t. Taking time to reflect…

  • An Unexpected Friend

    I went on a job interview today. I went fully prepared to run in and run out. I just knew that I had it in the bag. I knew I’d get a second interview because I am knowledgeable in that field and I am quite passionate about it. I was cocky. I practiced my interview…

  • Accountability

    In December of 2017, I started a new job and things rapidly changed from there. I became engaged to my best friend ( and also probably the only human who can simultaneously make me happy and angry) in January. I moved to a place that I love in March. I started working on my spiritual…